Question 1

Isn't the word "abusive" reserved for terrible acts and people?

Accepted Answer

A lot of good people are abusive and don’t even realize it (I was!). The word “abuse” sounds so severe, and it definitely can describe severe behaviors. But in general, think of abuse as repetitive hurtful and controlling behaviors, not just one-offs here and there. So I developed a short set of questions to help you figure out if you might be doing emotionally abusive behaviors.

Your answers to these questions will help you determine if you need Healed Being or not.

Question 2

How long is the Healed Being program?

Accepted Answer

If you purchase the Healed Being Subscription, you’ll get a new lesson every three days. In between each lesson, you’ll get a new Q&A as well. New lessons and Q&As will continue to be sent to you for just over seven months.

If you apply just the first few lessons, you’re going to notice big changes, and so will others. That means you could learn enough in the first couple of months to make major progress in your healing and growth – and maybe even your relationship, if you’re working on that, too.

The initial lessons help you discover what you’re doing wrong and give you specific steps to follow to show up as the best version of yourself. The first twenty or so lessons are the most important, as they help you create a solid foundation upon which you can build.

The majority of the rest of the lessons are just as important, but they are designed to build upon your foundation to make sure you don’t slip back into old patterns. Everything you learn that you apply will create lasting, noticeable changes.

Most people end up purchasing the lifetime Healed Being Online Complete, as it allows them to get all the lessons right away, and they can learn and apply what they’ve learned at their own pace.

You can choose the option that works best for you.

If you purchase Healed Being Online Complete, you’ll get immediate access to all 75 lessons, including existing and new Q&As as they’re released, lifetime access to the private online support and discussion groups, audio versions of the lessons, and more.

If you choose the subscription, you can cancel anytime you’re ready to venture out on your own. This is a true 'cancel anytime' program. There is a cancel link at the bottom of every email (yes, it’s that easy to cancel if you need to for any reason.)

For more information on both options, click here.

The subscription is designed to send you lessons at the most effective pace to give you time to apply and observe the changes, and also see how your healing affects those around you.

The full Healed Being Online Complete course gives you all the material at once. This is for those who have the budget and are able to absorb the material and apply it at a pace that’s right for them. Plus, you’ll have lifetime access to the online support group and the Virtual Coach (the AI chatbot that is continually trained in everything I know).

Both the Subscription and Lifetime options are effective and life-changing. Which one you choose will depend on how fast you need the lessons to work through the challenges you’re facing and if you prefer the lifetime option or the monthly payments.

Both options will also give you access to the online support group right away, where you can connect directly with me and others in the program. Throughout your healing journey, you’ll always have a place to get your questions answered.

Question 3

Will the Healed Being program save my relationship?

Accepted Answer

This is one of the most common questions I receive. The short answer is: If you’re looking to save your relationship after doing emotionally abusive behavior, this program will give you the best chance to make that happen.

In my experience, when you’re truly committed to changing your behavior and healing any unhealthy coping mechanisms you may have, and you’re applying all the lessons, and they still have love in their heart for you, there is a good chance the relationship can be saved.

The long answer, however, is much more complicated. As I said, it really depends if they still have love in their heart for you. Some people are just pushed too far over the edge, and there’s no coming back for them. When someone reaches their limit and they seal their heart shut, they usually aren’t willing to try any harder or travel any farther to reconnect with you.

That’s not always the case, of course. Some are willing to unlock the seal they’ve put on their heart and let you in again. It all depends on your particular circumstances and just how far the hurtful behavior has gone.

Unfortunately, some people who join this program have already pushed someone they care about beyond their limit. It’s very difficult to reconcile after someone has closed their heart off completely. But again, as long as there is still love in there somewhere, there is a chance.

Everyone has their limits. And everyone is different in how they feel about reconnecting and making the relationship work.

No matter what, always continue to work on yourself. Even if you know for sure you are losing the relationship today, you don’t know what’s going to happen tomorrow or next year. You may reconcile with them or not. Or you may connect with someone new and you don’t want to lose that relationship either.

Just focus on your own healing and growth to show up as the best version of yourself.

Question 4

How do I know if Healed Being will work for me?

Accepted Answer

Signing up for the free lessons will give you a great start to your healing journey. It will also give you a good taste of the learning material and what to expect going forward.

I get a lot of feedback from those who are taking or have already gone through the program, so if you resonate with what they’re saying, you will likely benefit from Healed Being as well. You can read a lot of feedback here.

I encourage you to at least sign up for the free lessons. If you aren’t sure if you should continue the program after that, sign up for the subscription for one month. That will give you a good measurement of the changes in your life.

If you don’t see the results you’re hoping to see, use the Cancel Program at the bottom of any lesson. You can stop anytime.

If, however, you answered yes to any of these questions, you will definitely find the program valuable and I’d recommend starting the subscription or purchasing Healed Being Online Complete to get all the lessons at once.

If you start the subscription, you can always upgrade to Healed Being Online Complete later. With either option, you’ll start to see results that will improve many aspects of your life as soon as you begin.

Question 5

Can I buy the full Healed Being course without a subscription?

Accepted Answer

Yes. It’s called Healed Being Online Complete. Full details on that here.

Question 6

If I get the Healed Being Subscription, is it hard to cancel?

Accepted Answer

No. It’s very easy. At the bottom of every email you get from me, you’ll see a Cancel Program link.

Honestly, I hate subscriptions that are hard to cancel, so you won’t get that here. You won’t get sent to a cancellation department. You won’t get anyone begging you to stay.

I trust that you’ll know when it’s time for you to move forward on your own.

Question 7

What is the total cost of the Healed Being program?

Accepted Answer

The Healed Being program can be taken through email lessons every three days with Q&As interspersed in between each (Healed Being Subscription) or purchased in one payment for full access to all the lessons at once (Healed Being Online Complete). You can choose the option that works best for you.

If you purchase Healed Being Online, you’ll get immediate access to all the lessons, including existing and new Q&As as they’re released, lifetime access to the private online support and discussion groups, audio versions of the lessons, and more.

If you choose the subscription, you can cancel anytime you’re ready to venture out on your own.

For more details and prices, click here.

The subscription is designed to send you lessons at the most effective pace to give you time to apply and observe the changes, and also see how your healing affects those around you.

Most purchase the full Healed Being Online Complete course to let them absorb the material at their own pace. But there are those who prefer the pace I set in the Subscription as well.

Both options are effective and life-changing. Which one you choose will depend on how fast you need the lessons and how willing and ready you are to apply what you’ve learned to solve the challenges you’re facing. Both options also give you access to the online support group right away where you can connect directly with me and others in the program. You’ll always have a place to get your questions answered.

This is a true 'cancel anytime' program. There is a Cancel Program link at the bottom of every lesson to make it easy. No hassle.