Healed Being Program

For the emotionally abusive person who wants to change

Add your email and I will send you free exercises and resources right away to start your healing journey. The emails you receive are practically an entire course by themselves.

You'll also receive the latest updates about the full online program when it becomes available.

You should get a welcome email from me within 24 hours. If you don't get it, check your spam folder or reach out to me using the contact form below.

Start the healing journey of learning how to stop hurting those you love. Healed Being will help you free yourself of the need to control and change others. It’s a challenging path , but the rewards last a lifetime. 

I spent most of my life as an emotionally abusive person, mainly toward my romantic partners. It took several failed relationships and a divorce to finally come to the conclusion that I was hurtful, manipulative, and controlling and that I needed to do something about it. 

If you’ve come to a similar conclusion or think you might have some emotionally abusive tendencies and you would like stop hurting the closest people in your life, add your email to the form above. I’ll send you valuable exercises and processes you can use to start making the changes you need to make to feel better in yourself and create stronger, healthier relationships. 

Emotional abuse is harmful to the relationship and hurtful to the victim, but it can also be stressful and burdensome to the perpetrator. If you are willing to do whatever it takes to stop the abusive behavior, not only will you see your relationships improve, but you’ll free yourself from the continuous stress of trying to control those around you. 

There’s no obligation and no spam. Just helpful information for you if you want to make changes in your life. Also, I’ll send you updates on the program when it’s complete (you don’t have to purchase when it’s done – it’s for those who need to go deeper).

My personal transformation story is here

Make sure to tune into my podcast Love and Abuse for more on emotional abuse and manipulative behavior. 

Paul Colaianni
Behavior and Relationship Coach
Host of The Overwhelmed Brain and Love and Abuse